Showing posts with label Radio interviews. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Radio interviews. Show all posts

Tuesday, January 27, 2015

The Tipping Point of Your Writing/Speaking Career

Every author wants to know, What is the secret to making my book a best seller? Pouring our souls into manuscripts, we work hard hoping to touch hearts rather than  make money.  We sweat, cry, agonize, and scrutinize every word and paragraph. While not planning to get rich quick, we dream and hope that our books will be read by more than a few.

Malcolm Gladwell in his book The Tipping Point — Little Things Can Make a Big Difference says, "The Tipping Point is that magic moment when an idea, trend, or social behavior crosses a threshold, tips, and spreads like wildfire."

Authors can have that "magic moment" when someone of influence (like Oprah) reads your book, loves it, and tells friends who tell friends who tell friends.

Oprah may not be reading your book, but be prepared. The tipping point could happen to you like it did to me in a quiet cafe in St. Petersburg, Russia..

Speaking in a quaint coffee shop to a small crowd, I was approached afterwards by a woman working with Trans World Radio saying, "Can we translate We All Married Idiots into Russian and  can you come to my office Monday morning for an interview about your book?"

The interview lasted 90 minutes. Trans World Radio divided it into three 30 minute segments and broadcast them throughout Russia one after the other over an entire weekend. Wow! Book sales didn't tip, but my heart skipped as God's Word for marriages and We All Married Idiots — Three Things You Will Never Change About Your Marriage and Ten Things You Can covered the Russian air. Like a wild fire We All Married Idiots spread from a coffee shop to a continent. My magic moment for sure!



Please pray that Russians who heard this broadcast will change their attitudes and tip couples toward marriage.

I encourage my author/speaker friends to never turn down a speaking engagement because of the size of the audience. Always speak with clarity and enthusiasm and promote the book God gave to you with passion and professionalism. You never know who may be sitting in your audience who will tell their friends, who tell their friends. Or, perhaps you'll have opportunity to tell an entire country.


 Remember this:  In the long run book sales don't matter. People do.


Splashes of Serenity to all my writer friends!

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Thursday, March 14, 2013

My Five Most Asked Marriage Questions May Surprise You!




Giovanni Gelati's face turned red when I answered his question, "What are the five most asked questions you receive relating to marriage?"

By far, the most asked question is "How can we keep sizzle in our sex life?"

Listen to my answer to my five most asked questions regarding marriage:

1. How can we keep sizzle in our sex life?

2. I am in a hopeless situation. Is there hope for me?

3. There is no love between us. What should we do?

4. Why do you think the divorce rate is so high?

5. What is your best piece of marriage advice?

You can hear my answers on GelatisScoop! Just hit the site below.
Elaine W. Miller answers 5 questions on Marriage! 03/14 by GelatisScoop | Blog Talk Radio

Praying God uses this interview to re-sizzle your marriage! May these words bring splashes of serenity to any marriage in turmoil,


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Sunday, January 6, 2013

25 Tips for a Successful Author Interview

Tony Danza said, "If you have fun doing your interview, people will have fun watching [or listening]."  I agree.

This week I hope to have fun doing two interviews and I trust you'll have fun listening. The first is Wednesday with Giovanni Gelati who interviews lots of authors on The G-Zone.  He's a hoot. This is our second interview.  Expect some good laughs and great advice. Check us out at www.blogtalkradio.com/gelatisscoop.

On Thursday at 10 a.m. I join Rita Schulte LPC on her Heartline Podcast. Rita is passionate about matters of the heart and so am I. This interview will be helpful to anyone whose heart loves or would like to love. We'll be talking about marriage. Listen at www.ritaschulte.com/category/podcasts.

If you are an author, being interviewed is a fact of life. Here are author interview tips to help you shake off those willies, prepare, relax, and have fun:

1.  Pray and have others praying for you. 

2.  Read your book through before the interview. The interviewer could ask an obscure question. Good to have your book fresh in your mind. 

3.  Write out every question you think you could be asked and write down your answer. Review this  sheet before your interview. You can send a list of suggested interview questions to the interviewer (some request this). Don't expect to stay on script, though.

4. Interviewers will ask about you, your book, and why you wrote it. Be prepared to answer these questions. Relax and be yourself and show your personality.

5.  Have in front of you main points you want to highlight.

6.  Don't try to tell the whole book in ten minutes. Grab one thought from your book and expand on it.

7.  Be a real person. Tell funny personal stories.

8.  If the interviewer asks a hard question, say, "I don't know the answer to that, but what I do know is ... (then go to one of the points you want to highlight). Politicians do this all the time.

9.  Engage the interviewer in the conversation, but don't take over. Imagine your conversation like a ping-pong ball bouncing back and forth.

10. Don't answer with "yes" or "no." Keep your talk interesting.

11. Speak slowly and clearly.

12. Drink plenty of water before an interview to avoid a dry mouth.

13. Practice your answers.

14. Remove distractions from your mind and your desk.

15. Have a beginning and closing statement memorized,but don't be married to it. Stay flexible and go with the interviewer's flow.

16. Don't be nervous. Have fun. Trust God for the words. Be yourself and speak from your heart.

17. Dress comfortably. If televised, dress professionally.

18. Keep water handy.

19. Picture your audience in your mind, relax, and talk to them.

20. Breathe deeply in through your nose and out through your mouth.

21. Have a conversation. Enjoy yourself and your audience will enjoy you.

22. Smile. Even if you are on the telephone. Smiles will show in your voice.

23. Stand while talking if the interview is on the telephone. You'll sound better.

24. If the interview doesn't go well, let it go. There really is no such thing as bad publicity, and audiences forgive and love seeing the human side of you.

25. Send a thank you note.

I'd love to hear any other helpful tips you may have. Meanwhile, I'm reading my book and preparing for some fun this Wednesday and Thursday. Hope you listen in.

Oops! Below is an interview I wasn't expecting and I didn't prepare for, but we sure had some good laughs. Enjoy! The jokes on me.





Splashes of Serenity even on an interview day!

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