Showing posts with label Dianne Barker. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Dianne Barker. Show all posts

Friday, October 19, 2018

Elaine Shares Her Cancer Journey with Dianne Barker, WHCB Radio

Dianne Barker
Speaker, radio host, and author
I Don't Chase the Garbage Truck Down the Street in My Bathrobe Anymore!
Organizing for the Maximum in Life

 Dianne Barker and I sat down for a heart-to-heart about my cancer journey and my new book Praise the Lord and Pass the Chemo: A Hopeful Response to a Hard Diagnosis on her radio show "At the Library."



Dianne's "At the Library" two-part chat with Elaine W. Miller will be aired one time for the next two Saturday's. 

Part I
Saturday, October 20, 2018 
 at 3:30 EST 
on WHCB Radio, 91.5 FM in Tennessee

 Part II
Saturday, October 27, 2018
 at 3:30 EST 
on WHCB Radio, 91.5 FM in Tennessee

Dianne edited Praise the Lord and Pass the Chemo. Her belief in this book and her love for cancer patients shines through in the final product. She made me look really good! Thank you, Dianne!!!

She writes in her endorsement:

"A contagious joy infects the pages of Praise the Lord and Pass the Chemo. Elaine W. Miller refuses to let a leukemia diagnosis steal her joy. Trusting God and believing he fights for her, she knows her eternity in heaven is secure. That puts her in a win-win position—surrendered to whatever God pleases to do. Her faith-filled perspective facing a potential death sentence offers encouragement and 
hope to others walking through dark, uncertain places. They will learn to laugh at cancer and find unexpected blessings in the journey. This sweet book by my precious friend is a shout-out to the Lord she loves with all her heart." ~ Dianne Barker



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Friday, August 17, 2018

Edit, Edit, Edit, and Then Edit Some More


If four eyes are better than two, then twenty eyes are near perfection. Except there is no perfect book. Some reader, somewhere, will find the misspelled word.

Ten people blessed me and blessed cancer patients when they volunteered to read my book searching for typos, stupid errors, and grave mistakes. I read my book over and over and over. No book is perfect, but every book can be improved. We owe ourselves and we owe our readers the time and the hard work of editing. Our goal is to produce the cleanest and clearest copy possible. Thank you for all who helped me achieve that goal.

Dianne Barker, friend and author of eight books, was my books eleventh read. Wow! She poured her heart and her expertise into my book. When she sent her edits, I felt like I was attending a college writing course, as she not only sent suggestions, she told me why.



If you would like to contact Dianne to edit your manuscript, I give the highest recommendation.

e-mail: diannebarker@embarqmail.com

Here's a sample of Dianne's work:

I wrote: "Too stunned to react, I sat silent knowing that in a moment of a test result life had changed forever."

Dianne suggested: "Too stunned to react, I sat silent. In a moment, a test result had changed life forever."

Dianne packed power into those words, yet didn't change my voice. My appreciation of her is immense.

Editing is tough, yet necessary. Don't sell your book short (literally).

 Edit, Edit, Edit, and Then Edit Again.

Some tips for surviving the editing process:

1. Let go of your pride. 

The editor has one goal: to make your book better. Be happy, not devastated or embarrassed when the editor changes the sentence you spent three hours perfecting. The book belongs to you. You choose whether to accept or reject each edit.

2. Keep your voice.

"Write the way you speak." Thelma Wells said at an Advanced Writers and Speakers Conference. So, hold on to your voice. An editor may change your "do not" to "don't" to make the sentence more conversational, but if you say "do not" and rarely say "don't," then not a good idea to change.

3. No two readers or editors think the same.

One editor said, "You don't like commas do you?" She filled the manuscript with perfectly placed commas to enhance the readability of my book. I sent the comma-laden script off to another editor who removed most of them. When in an English-usage quandary, check your heart, and discern which read makes more sense to you. Both of these editors are award-winning authors. They know the punctuation business. I trust them both. But, they are human so they think differently.

One reader loves a paragraph. Another says to get rid of the beloved words. Again, use your discernment.

4. An editor does more than find typos. 

They make your work shine. Shine for Jesus, dear author, shine!

Have a Splashes of Serenity Kind of a Day!


Saturday, February 13, 2016

Dianne Barker and I Talk Marriage on WHCBradio.com. Listen In.


Author/speaker/host of At the Library/ and my friend Dianne Barker

What  joy it was to meet Dianne Barker (www.DianneBarker.com)  at the Advanced Writers and Speakers Association Conference last summer.  God ordained our meeting when we "happened" to sit next to each other for our first session.We weren't giggling long before we knew we were kindred spirits.

Dianne is the best-selling author of many books including Twice Pardoned and Living Proof.  I knew we were forever friends when she shared her recent book I Don't Chase the Garbage Truck Down the Street in My Bathrobe Anymore. She also hosts a radio show titled "At the Library."

Today (February 13, 2016), I am her guest on At the Library. We'll talk about marriage and my book We All Married Idiots at 3:30 p.m. EST. If you are in the Bristol, TN, area please listen in on 91.5  FM. The rest of us can hear the broadcast on www.WHCBradio.com.

Listen in and receive some splashes of serenity on your marriage! Just in time for Valentine's Day!


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Monday, August 31, 2015

"I Don't Chase the Garbage Truck Down the Street in My Bathrobe Anymore!" — Book Review



I laughed and related when I heard the book title I Don't Chase the Garbage Truck Down the Street in My Bathrobe Anymore!  Organizing for the Maximum Life. For, I have, indeed, run down the street in my bathrobe. Not after a garbage truck, but after my dog. I'm an organizational nightmare, right down to caring for my pets.

Forgive me, but housecleaning is my least favorite activity. My home looks presentable, but please don't open a drawer or closet. If you bake at my house, make sure you check the inside of the oven. Who knows what lurks inside. Could be the dog!

That was my life before I read Dianne Barker's, I Don't Chase the Garbage Truck Down the Street in My Bathrobe Anymore! Now, I find joy in organization and cleaning. Why? Because Diane showed me how to find freedom from the clutter and joy in the mundane.

I've read  many books on organization, knowing this is a huge flaw in my life which robs me of time and happiness and freedom to do what God wants me to do. But this book worked for me.

  I Don't Chase the Garbage Truck changed my life. Diane's book isn't just about changing your messy habits, it is about getting your life back. The life God planned for you. I Don't Chase the Garbage Truck. not only organizes your cupboards, but also prioritizes your life, freeing you to spend more time with your spouse and become a more fun and effective parent.

Dianne Barker covers every aspect of life in this powerful book. And she uses scripture to encourage throughout so that we can do ALL for the glory of God. Even clean your house. I love this book and won't pass it along, because I am keeping it to read again and refer to often.

At the Advanced Writer's and Speakers Association Conference, Dianne and I met.What a joy. Our senses of humor bonded. You'll love her too! Check out her website and buy her books at www.diannebarker.com



Splashes of Serenity on your life happens when we free our minds, our homes, our lives of the clutter that keeps us from being all God meant us to be. Thanks, Dianne, for teaching this lesson so well.

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Thursday, July 9, 2015

Too Old to Write?

My hubby retired last year. Oh, how I love having him home. Twenty-four/seven I  have my handsome man at my side kissing me. What's not to like?

Except, there is a  restlessness in my soul and a passion in my heart not to retire, but to write. Can I have the kisses and the contracts too? Dan thinks so!

At the Advanced Writers and Speakers Conference #2015AWSA, we were blessed by the words of Mama T. Thelma Wells is 70+ years old, has just begun a new book, and is
speaking on the 2015 Women of Faith Tour. I want to be Mama T! www.ThelmaWells.com 



Thelma's words encouraged us all and struck a chord in my heart:

"There's nothing I can do without the anointing of God."

"If you are over 50, you have something to say. Why haven't you written a book?"

"Write it like you talk. Get directions from God — not from other writers."

I like the way Mama T thinks.

Sitting beside me  was Dianne Barker, best-selling author of Twice Pardoned and Living Proof. I'm currently loving her book I Don't Chase the Garbage Truck Down the Street in My Bathrobe Anymore! www.diannebarker.com 



Dianne whispered to me, "I want to die holding a pen."  Me too, Dianne. Me too.

May we older writers be encouraged by these who went before us:

Laura Ingalls Wilder wrote her first book in her mid-sixties.

Dr. Seuss wrote his last book at age 85.

Frank McCourt, published Angela's Ashes in his mid-sixties.

Harriet Doerr wrote Stones for Ibana at age 73.

And Mama T keeps on writing.

I hope you do too.

When does a writer retire?  When  the anointing of God has left your spirit and you have nothing left to write or speak. For me, I hope that happens when I end my journey on earth and begin writing in Heaven.

What are your thoughts?

May today's reflections be a splash of serenity to your writer's soul.


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