Showing posts with label Pastoral Care Couple. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Pastoral Care Couple. Show all posts

Wednesday, May 15, 2013

Tuesday, March 5, 2013

Blessed to Be a Blessing in Bosnia/Herzegovina

Yesterday we returned from our 6th trip to Bosnia/Herzegovina where Dan and I serve as pastoral care couple to International Workers there. What a blessing to be a blessing!

 We go to encourage, edify, enrich, and strengthen God's servants. You know how that works, don't you? We receive the blessing by returning home encouraged, edified, enriched, and strengthened.

 I love how God blesses those whose goal it is to bless. Try it. It'll work for you too! Go visit your sick neighbor, encourage an exhausted mom, do something special for your spouse. The blessings are endless!

But now, back to our trip.

In preparation for Bosnia, I read Tender Care: providing pastoral care for God's global servants published by Barnabas books. The author states "Going overseas is like putting Miracle Grow on all your sins and dysfunctions." Our servants living across many ponds face challenges we know not of here in the United States. My prayer is that God used our presence to kill any weeds trying to poke their heads into their ministries.

Here's a peek into life as pastoral care couple to International Workers:

We've learned to take very few clothes. International Workers are not interested in my latest style, they want gifts from home! So we pack computers, software programs, children's toys, birthday gifts, Christmas gifts, and lots of yarn for the Bosnian handcrafts project.

Our suitcases empty of love gifts, are now refilled with completed handcrafts brought back to the US to sell. All proceeds go to Bosnian women, some of whom have no other means of support.


International Worker Kathy Eikost and her Bosnian friend filling our suitcase.
 
Dan and I spend individual time with each International Worker, giving them opportunity to talk and share what is happening in their lives. As one said to me, "I'm so thankful you come and talk to me face to face. Skyping just wouldn't do it." It's a joy to hold hands and pray and hug each one needing a touch from home.
 
 
We enjoy time in their homes on the floor with their children. The Dinius children stole our hearts.
 
 
 
4 year old Joshua announced to an entire ski lodge that I was pretty! You go, Joshy!!!

 
Speaking of ski lodge! We all retreated to the Alps of Bosnia (remember, the Olympics were held in Sarajevo!) for a retreat together where Dan and I spoke and we enjoyed celebrating Holy Communion four times!!! So special!
 
 
Driving up into the mountains of Bosnia. So beautiful!
 
 


 
The view from our window.
 
 
 
The ministry team who plays together, stays together! We enjoyed great snow fun as you will see from the above video!
 
 
From the Alps to the Mediteranean climate of Mostar, Herzegovina where Mark and Viviane Shady serve.
 
 
Viviane Shady (on right) and her dear friend Ivon. Ivon is a Pastor's Wife and the first graduate of the Mostar Bible School.
 
 
Pastor Karmelo (on left) is Ivon's husband and serves as Pastor of a church in Herzegovina. My husband (on right) had the honor of preaching in Pastor Karmelo's church on Sunday.
 
 
A Pastoral Care Couple is taught to obey whatever the International Worker tells them to do because the IW knows the culture and the PCC does not. Mark and Viviane Shady told us to kiss, so we obeyed what the IW said to do. That's all.
 
 


Some of our best ministry happens just walking around town with the IW's and listening to their hearts.
 
 


And, of course, the girls love to talk and shop!
 
 

Don't forget Bosnia is a hurting and war-torn country filled with lovely people who need the hope and help our International Workers bring.
 

Don't forget to pray for our International Workers!
 
Don't forget God has someone for you to encourage today!
 
Don't forget to be a splash of serenity in someone's life today!
 
Thanking God for His blessings! 
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Friday, February 25, 2011

A Splash of Serenity in Sarajevo


Imagine living in Sarajevo during the Bosnian Civil War from 1992-1996. You remember gorgeous mountains hugging beautiful Sarajevo resting in a peaceful valley. No more. Now artillery fills those mountains surrounding your hometown. They aim and shoot at you and all those you love and life as you know it. Your family and friends are massacred. Men you love are herded into prison camps to be executed, beaten, and tortured. Twenty thousand girlfriends are systematically raped. You watch your children being slung under the tracks of advancing tanks. Half your world is dead. There's no electricity, no gas, no running water for 3 1/2 years. How could anyone survive this?

Imagine living in Sarajevo today. It's a history-rich city being rebuilt. Yet 40% remain unemployed. You may be a Bosnian war widow eking out a living making handcrafts. Perhaps your children are the ones begging on the streets hoping for a meal. You love Bosnia but you hate the memories there. The people are warm and loving, but they carry deep pain in their minds and scars that penetrate their hearts.

Dan and I rejoice at the opportunity we have to bring hope and encouragement to the people who live there and the International Workers who serve them. We just returned from our 5th trip to the Balkans. There is so much to say, but this poem printed from a Covenant House Christmas card in Leslie Vernick's book, Lord, I Just Want To Be Happy, says most of it.

On the street I saw a small girl
cold and shivering in a thin dress,
with little hope of a decent meal.
I became angry and said to God:
"Why did you permit this?
Why don't you do
something about it?"

For a while God said nothing.
That night He replied
quite suddenly:
"I certainly did something about it--
I made you.'"

Won't you be a Splash of Serenity in some one's life today? Perhaps that is why God made you.

Blessed to be used by God in any way to bring a splash of serenity to a hurting world,

Elaine

Friday, January 28, 2011

A Splash of Serenity in Bosnia


In ten days Dan and I fly to Bosnia. We carry with us a suitcase filled with yarn and a heart filled with love. We'll return with a suitcase filled with lace and a heart filled with hope for the people of this war-torn country.

The Bosnian Lace Project is one of the ways the Christian and Missionary Alliance is helping in practical ways. I wish you could see some of the toothless grins of these dear women who trust the Lord and our sales will bring them dinner tonight. Won't you help bring a splash of serenity to their valuable lives? Please read the following article by clicking "share" and ask yourself what you can do.

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