Thursday, March 5, 2015

Will You Partner with Me to Fight for Marriages?

I'm passionate about marriage. Too many give up on their marriage too soon (like I almost did) and throw away a love that God intended to bless (like he did mine).

I wrote We All Married Idiots (it took me four years) to help marriages keep running when they feel like giving up. To persist when they hit the wall. To turn to the best marriage healer of all — Jesus Christ. My heart smiles when I hear from a husband that he prays the last prayer in the book every morning, when I learn a wife has read Idiots five times, when a couple writes that they are staying together instead of divorcing because the words in We All Married Idiots changed their marriage.

In the past week I received four 5 star reviews. My soul rejoices. One read:

"God has worked through Elaine Miller as she wrote this book. If you are thinking of getting married, if you've been married for years, buy this book, read it and then read it again. Have married children? Buy them a will be the best dollar you ever spent. Take a long look in the mirror and then sit down and read 'Idiots' and as you do, you'll see your marriage and yourself unfold one page at a time. Brilliant."

Brilliant? No, I'm not brilliant. Another reviewer called Idiots, "Genius!" (How's that for an oxymoron?) I'm not genius either. But I am thankful. I am thankful for each review I receive because that review may be the one that stirs a reader to buy the book, read it, and save their marriage.

Readers, we are in a partnership. I thank God for each one of you. I need you.

I heard  (although I'm not sure it's true), that if a book receives 100 Amazon reviews then Amazon considers the book viable and promotes it. I'd like the opportunity for Amazon to invest in marriages by receiving 100 reviews.

I have 92 reviews!!! So close! If God leads you to partner with me in reaching 100 reviews, will you please do so at 

Will you pray for marriages in crisis around the world?

Will you consider having a We All Married Idiots book study in your home or at your church?

I thank God for your partnership. Thank you reviewers and readers of We All Married Idiots. I poured four years of my life into writing Idiots because I care about marriages. I care about your marriage.

Thanks for your partnership in the Gospel! Let's splash serenity on marriages at

Be blessed this day!



  1. Your book sounds wonderful Elaine. Will have to check it out. Praying for marriages of those I know, and those I do not know. I agree, marriage is important and plays a key role for our future.

  2. P.S. Thanks so much for stopping by my blog today! :)

  3. Thank you for your prayers and the work you do promoting Christian writing. Three cheers for you!

  4. I'm so glad we met via our mutual friend, Jeanette Levellie.


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